This story is from June 27, 2017

Meghalaya woman guest in Khasi dress told to leave Delhi Golf Club

Ignorance about the northeastern region and prejudices borne out of it was on full display at Delhi Golf Club on Sunday when a Meghalaya woman wearing traditional Khasi attire was told to leave.
Meghalaya woman guest in Khasi dress told to leave Delhi Golf Club
Tailin Lyngdoh (Photo source: Barthakur's Facebook post)
Key Highlights
  • Lyngdoh arrived wearing a jainsem and the club authorities took a disapproving view of the dress.
  • Lyngdoh said she travelled to London and UAE wearing the jainsem but never faced trouble.
  • The manager reportedly said that the woman looked like "a maid".
NEW DELHI: Ignorance about the northeastern region and prejudices borne out of it was on full display at Delhi Golf Club on Sunday when a Meghalaya woman wearing traditional Khasi attire was told to leave.
The woman, Tailin Lyngdoh, works as a governess for Dr Nivedita Barthakur Sondhi, an honorary health advisor to the Assam government. Lyngdoh was among eight guests invited by P Thimmayya Goel, a long-time member of the club, for lunch.
Lyngdoh arrived wearing a jainsem. The club authorities, however, took a disapproving view of the dress.
“Around 10-15 minutes after we arrived, the manager, Ajit Pal, accompanied by a woman named Sumita Thakur, asked Lyngdoh to leave the table and the room. When I asked them the reason, they said she looks like a maid. I asked them how they concluded that. They said she looks different, dresses like a servant and looks like a Nepalese. That was so humiliating! I wasn’t ready to accept such discrimination,” Sondhi said.
“I protested as they were insulting a traditional dress of an Indian citizen. I also argued that her profession is immaterial as she has been invited as a guest by a member,” Sondhi said, adding that all of them left the club as nobody else who saw it intervened.
Lyngdoh told TOI that she travelled to London and UAE earlier wearing the jainsem but never faced any trouble there. “People in London and Abu Dhabi appreciated the jainsem. But in India, I was told to leave Delhi Golf Club as they didn’t know our culture or tradition,” she said.
Dr Barthakur later posted on Facebook:
The club’s secretary was not available for a reaction despite calls and SMSs.
“These incidents will continue until the mindset changes; and that would happen if NE is made part of the educational curriculum apart from strong and proactive action by the government. Sadly, the Bezbaruah Committee report, which had recommended several important measures with regard to various issues related to NE people, is yet to be implemented. The less said about the behaviour of these elite clubs, the better,” said Utpal Borpujari, a filmmaker and film critic from Assam.
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